Why does my ex, father of my daughter, new chic doesn't allow him to call me for our daughter?

She sounds like one selfish jealous type person who is no doubt afraid she may loose him back to you, therefore she's doing EVERYTHING in her power to keep him away from you by also making his own daughter suffer. She has NO business whatsoever to even be involved in his own child's life! She's a total no body to his family. He's got to learn to put his foot down & speak up to her as she's walking ALL OVER him, controlling his very life. This is of NO business of hers, she should NOT even be in touch with you. She IS one "gutsy" person, someone who doesn't seem very desirable to my way of thinking! She has NO RITE to get involved with his child support as it has NOTHING to do with you, but EVERYTHING to do with HIS CHILD!!! Don't you dare drop ANY child support, he OWES you that money for HIS own child! I feel he no doubt thinks he "owes her" because he's living with her. He needs to get a job just as EVERYONE else has, regardless of what it is, at least it's making some money. He has responsibilities to take care of & SHOULD be doing his best to find something to do, even if it's pumping gas!!! I'd also "advise him" you do NOT want to hear from his girlfriend again as she is FAR out of place getting involved in lives that do not pertain to her. This IS so unfair of her to do this to you, & it's out of pure jealously. In a way you can look at it & feel you've got one over on her as she's afraid of loosing him back to you. Her self esteem is below ground level & that's quite evident!!! So actually, she's doing nothing but making a total fool of herself! When your daughter gets a bit older, he OWES IT to her to at least be a part of her life! She too needs a dad regardless if she likes it or not. Don't make your child pay for the two of you not getting along, that's not fair to her. She does need a father figure in her life & there's NO reason she shouldn't have it either as why punish her too?! So IF he's still with that "bimbo", she'd better get use to him spending time with his own daughter & he MUST put his foot down to her about that. Hopefully someone will come into your life who will bring you happiness & also the same with your daughter too. You're still young, there IS a special someone just for you, you haven't met him yet but will at the rite time. You asked if is sounds like he loves her. NO, I feel he's "beholding" to her only because she took him in, that's why he's letting her get away with the things she's doing so he doesn't loose a roof over his head! But I'd tell her to stay the heck out of YOUR life, she has NO business with you, you do NOT want to hear from the likes of her again! It's really obvious how jealous she IS of you, & is afraid of loosing him back to you! Who knows what the future holds if he would only get his own life together, you just never know what could happen. I'd "advise her" you only want to deal with HIM regarding HIS daughter & to stay the heck out of your life thank you! But do not let him go on that child support, that IS money owed to you for the care of both your daughter & not even for you! I HOPE things work out for you, honey, stick to your guns & you'll be OK in the end for doing it. Good luck!^